Ever wondered why pick up lines will get girls to fall for you but often will not get women?
That’s because it is never about the pick up lines, it’s about understanding what makes a woman think of you (in her mind) as a confident and attractive man. Pick up lines get old and that’s why I’ve put this video here for you that filmed of me picking up and Asian-Australian lady in Sydney’s China Town district.

Savvy, a girl who I met and closed in 1 minute flat. Back in those days it was a new record for me: "The One Minute Mile" I called it because there was a 'mile' of stuff I had to learn and know before I could get any woman's number in 1 minute.
Most guys I know do not approach Asian woman at all because they feel that they’re too different and that there’s a cultural divide. In reality, I think most of them deep down are conscious being seen as racist if they were to say “They probably won’t speak English”. Sometimes I find out this is the reason and I ask these guys why they think that.
They usually are honest enough to just say “most of the Asian’s I know or meet do not have a good understanding of the English language”. So they do not approach because in their minds they will end up having the same kind of conversation they have with the manager of their local Chinese restaurant.
I actually happen to agree with this racist stereotype because 10-20 years ago the majority of Asians I met were new immigrants to Australia. Despite what people may say, I honestly believe that over the past 5 years, since China’s boom, the level of English in China Town is nearly always good enough to hold an effective conversation that isn’t in pigeon English.
I chose China Town because all the Asians I approach outside of China-town are not fresh citizens, they’re Australian born and you just pick up as per usual.
Despite that many people are only interested in picking up within their own culture. I was one of those people for most of my life as my family insisted I stick to ONLY Jewish girls and I did…hence why I was never that successful with women in my youth because I had a very small community to choose my partners from.
Once I hit 16 I realised that this is insane. I started using pick up lines to get girls but they were so cheesy, stupid and obvious that they really could only be used as jokes. Everyone knows everyone if you’re an observant Jewish person in Sydney. Just like any religion, cult or past time it usually has a community aspect to it that can really easily suck you in to other peoples’ dramas as it’s all very incestuous.
So I started approaching black women when I first realised that inter-marriage is crap because no Rabbi, Priest, Parent or Friend could ever convince me that their views should dictate to me who I love and who I don’t. Psychologists, neuroscience, my heart and MOST important my own research and what I have seen proven true consistently will be the only things that sway me. In other words: science, not god and not a man or woman who’s been given authority by an organisation (business, church, cult, etc) or by a friend who’s trying to push their own personal anti-assimilation sentiments into my life because their views are often not things they’re proud to state outright because even though they think it, they may know that saying it sounds racist.
So, here’s a video I filmed 2 years ago now and you can see on screen the bare-bones tips I was working on back in my early days (2 years prior to even being bothered to go out and film what I do). It is by no means out of date, instead all the commentary you see is not very succinct and it’s very technique based.
In other-words, you will have to learn each little trick and remember a heap of things (that’s how I used to do it). Later I researched the commonalities of what makes all these things effective and then later focused on helping guys keep it simple because that way they never run out of things to say. Too much to remember will cause you to ‘blank out’ whilst using a pick up line, being a pick up artist or using any form of social or interpersonal trick or tip.
That’s all they are: tricks and tips. Not real solutions. The real solutions created the tips and tricks you can see that I use in this video when picking up an Asian girl in under 1 minute who was with her DAD! It’s insane…but not really (you’ll be able to do it too just by watching this video…which kills how ‘insane’ it is because it’s just that easy).
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[..YouTube..] @thesocialengineer I mean they are being won over by some professional. they probably think they are getting special treatment from you, and they are unique. when really, you have done the same thing to countless other women.
[..YouTube..] @thesocialengineer They aren’t prizes to be won.They all probably think that you are giving them specialtreatment. When really, you have done the same thing to countless other women.
[..YouTube..] @thesocialengineerThey aren’t prizes to be won.They all probably think that you are giving them specialtreatment. When really, you have done the same thing to countless other women.
[..YouTube..] @strachtacular They aren’t trophies to be won.Each of these girls probably thinksyou are talking to her purely, for her.When really you are just using her as an example for thousandsof strangers.you do the same thing to countless otherwomen.
[..YouTube..] They aren’t trophies to be won.Each of these girls probably thinksyou are talking to her purely, for her.When really you are just using her as an example for thousandsof strangers.you do the same thing to countless otherwomen.
[..YouTube..] Holy shit….look at how much you posted. It’s obviously indicative of your fundamentalism….Joking. You’re passionate and correct. They’re not trophies and they do think I’m talking them purely for them…until I have to go back and tell them I was filming them, why and get them to sign a waiver.Suprisingly 50% has been OK with signing it, the other 50% didn’t appear cut but didn’t want to be on film. Your concerns are valid and yes they are primarily examples but often very happy ones
[..YouTube..] he is a good lookin fellow a lot of people think.. I would not say he is not good looking, what are you some kind of fucking judge?
[..YouTube..] sexysupersteve, you’re calling some guy a jerk online? your a wimpy keyboard warrior faggot
[..YouTube..] Please check out jumpduck’s channel, there are some really interesting videos with lots of social value (Just kidding!!!)T, your videos are really interesting! It seems to be more genuine than other videos i have seen. Great Posts!
[..YouTube..] @thesocialengineer That is, unless her favorite food is crabs!
[..YouTube..] @thesocialengineer Unless her favorite food is crabs!
[..YouTube..] @thesocialengineer But what you forgot to mention is, that hopefully her favorite food is not crabs.
[..YouTube..] @thesocialengineer hey can u show us some more gambits….. sometimes this one isnt that appropriate for some girls…… if u know what i mean.
[..YouTube..] Haha guy’s a beast…
[..YouTube..] @Adamfan455 What the fuck are you talking about? Despite the cheesy way I talk in my videos please understand this page is for quality comments and is not a mouthpiece for clowns who like crabs.
[..YouTube..] @SeeProfileForDetails I agree, but YOU are calling him a ‘faggot’ online, think about that one
[..YouTube..] @simplyalif It got cancelled!!!!
hahahaha she said her name’s spelled with one V not two. Shows how much you really listened
Haha I’m very impressed you picked that up, sloppy on my behalf but to be honest I didn’t really listen, that’s why it’s not such a good pickup.
[..YouTube..] IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOWIM UNSTOPABLE
i don’t see any thing sloppy here, you translated from phonetics to spelling, although i usually add, ‘ let me guess’ on spelling, no harm done. lol, try it sometime rather than being such a jerk
jumpyduck, i guess you have only been atracted to one woman in you life, or you are more likely wating for that ‘ magic moment’ when the ‘one woman’ comes into view.. suppose it’s the day her mother dies. you are an idiot, keep jacking off, leave the women to men. T told her she was attractive, that’s it, buddy, not she is the only woman that could ever be the right one, that is insane, that will keep you jacking off the rest of your life, but then again, you are not attracted to women, are you, it will be one day that you see the only woman that could possibly interest you and you will magically fall into each other’s arms, right?
lol, and so what if the video says ‘Savvy’ with two v’s, who has her number, your nit-picky little ass, or T?
one last thing, jumpyduck, go ahead and try that ‘i saw you, you are the only woman for me’ shit, the answer you are going to get is ‘you don’t even know me’ your shit is really base and inulting to women, you are making the assumption of attraction on appearance, not someone who approaches and says ‘I find you interesting’. jackass
Ah Dave,
You hit the mark mate. Sorry I havent had the chance to reply to your posts, I feel I have little to comment on them as they’re simply great I’m just flat out on my world tour at the moment….but, as I’ve told you privately, I read them all and you know my thoughts mate.
True.
If “the one” existed more of us would be married to foreigners (I’d be married to an Eskimo I’m sure). It’s insane. There’s no suprise that people marry their high school sweethearts, it’s safe, common and familiar. All things human beings like so we say ‘they’re the one’ but trust me, when you are an only child of divorced parents you become a little less naive when you realise “Mum and Dad should NEVER have been together”, they were just so wrong even though they were ‘the one’ for eachother at the time. It makes you realise that anyone can be the one (or you can make them feel like you’re their ‘one’, by making them fall seriously in love with you.
The only issue is both men and woman can get high on the power and use it for selfish and malicious reasons. It’s like a car, it will get you from A to B but it can also be used to run people over. Luckily most of us choose not to use it in that way even though we can.
Oooh, flamed.
nice i like it………………..
[..YouTube..] share some gambits pls lol … and what if she has a pet … u tell her pornstar name and then what ?
[..YouTube..] share some gambits pls lol. and what if she has a pet ,u tell her pornstar name and then what ?
i am pretty far in a relattionship with a girl im unsure if i used some words i shouldnt have in getting that far but right now i have been hanging out with her and her cousin for a couple months now. I asked her to a dance at the end of the school year but im unsure what to do as not to be too pusshy or pulley but in the end maybe get a kiss from her.
[..YouTube..] man i last night i got a number using gambits… but it’s fake
hey just askin., what do you do after you get the number…
i mean, you must have heaps of numbers, do you follow through with some and just deny others.. ?
[..YouTube..] Can you write here what gambits are?? I can“t understand english at 100% yet, but your vids are really interesting.
Hey can anybody write down this pornstar name gambit? I listened to the vid but couldn’t understand everything. The first name of your what?? And the second part is…..? Thanks a lot…
[..YouTube..] man he pulled the girl with a man purse.. impressive
Name of your first pet (firstname), name of your first street (surname).
[..YouTube..] U are God and we are your followers. !!!!!
i asked this one girl out at mall and she said no and since then i am very much shy to even talk to one.
i said hello and she said hi then i said i think u r really cute and she smiled and then i asked if she would like to have dinner with me and she said she is with her friends and then i panicked and she just went away. what possibly i could have done to manipulate the situation??
this is before i get to know about u !
i need mad help this girl i like pull the friend card just this week but i think i have a chance if i take it slow how do i approach this horrible situation
hey T,
I pretty much found your videos today and I am pretty damn impressed. I’ve spent alot of the day just reading the articles, such as the popular one and this one, i found out about you by watching a video on youtube. Anyway, I’m writing with a bit of a problem. Your methods seem solid and the way you deliver them better. The problem i see myself confronting while trying to replicate it is the fact I can have times when I’m not that witty. Yeah, i can be funny, in fact thats the quality my friends pick out as a standout characteristic of mine, but having to answer on my toes i find can be tricky. Question is does that come with time? How do i develop this skill? I am asking as this seems to stand out in your technique. I am quite young, I have just left school and am 18, which may help you answer.
Cheers for any help you can give.
Nick, I find that I become more witty or able to respond to questions on my toes when I’m more comfortable with the person. So I would suggest just talking to more of your friends that are girls and just start socializing more and more with females and eventually you’ll get comfortable enough to have this trait with almost anyone. So, yes I think just exposing yourself to more women will develop this trait.
Hi T,
There is a nice girl at my work, she started chasing me from day 1. I ignored her, she kept coming closer and closer, even working at the same department. It was a nice department we laughed a lot and she always showed interest and you should have seen her look, her big blue eyes, I made everybody laugh and I made friends and I’m respected by all off them.
A few months later she started acting dissapointed, and a few weeks after that I’m transferd to another place to work. After that I replied on her e-mail and asked her out and she refused,since then we have no contact. I’m dating another girl at this moment, What can i do about the first one?
Hey so after I saw your videos I was like ‘what the hell’ and went to go take a shot at some women that were at the mall that day….I got shutdown right after i said can I borrow you for 30 seconds its pretty itimating thing to say or do when the girl is with another person and it doesnt work 100% of the time…anyways I need help coming up with things to say to women because after the conversation starts im good money but I need help STARTING ONE PLEASE SOMEONE HELP
I enjoy your videos. After reading popular PUA books, your game sheds light on a new perspective. I enjoy direct game far more than indirect game.
[..YouTube..] This guy is pretty good. A gambit is applicable to many instances, sales, jobtalks, etc. in which you need to build rapport. The best way to build rapport, fast, is, in my experience, to smile, keep “friendly” eye contact all the time, and let her do some talk.
Thank for the videos, they are great. You show us that in order to get a girl, and it is true one needs to show confidence and a good sense of humor.
hello, every body!
what do you think if i meet a lesbian and she not interested in men…..do you think your way work with them?
Hahaha – are you serious? Being gay is being gay – nothing in the world can change that if that’s how you naturally are.