Video: T Gets a Woman’s Number in 1 Minute at a Mall

Ever wondered why pick up lines will get girls to fall for you but often will not get women?

That’s because it is never about the pick up lines, it’s about understanding what makes a woman think of you (in her mind) as a confident and attractive man. Pick up lines get old and that’s why I’ve put this video here for you that filmed of me picking up and Asian-Australian lady in Sydney’s China Town district.

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Savvy, a girl who I met and closed in 1 minute flat. Back in those days it was a new record for me: "The One Minute Mile" I called it because there was a 'mile' of stuff I had to learn and know before I could get any woman's number in 1 minute.

Most guys I know do not approach Asian woman at all because they feel that they’re too different and that there’s a cultural divide. In reality, I think most of them deep down are conscious being seen as racist if they were to say “They probably won’t speak English”. Sometimes I find out this is the reason and I ask these guys why they think that.

They usually are honest enough to just say “most of the Asian’s I know or meet do not have a good understanding of the English language”. So they do not approach because in their minds they will end up having the same kind of conversation they have with the manager of their local Chinese restaurant.

I actually happen to agree with this racist stereotype because 10-20 years ago the majority of Asians I met were new immigrants to Australia. Despite what people may say, I honestly believe that over the past 5 years, since China’s boom, the level of English in China Town is nearly always good enough to hold an effective conversation that isn’t in pigeon English.

I chose China Town because all the Asians I approach outside of China-town are not fresh citizens, they’re Australian born and you just pick up as per usual.

Despite that many people are only interested in picking up within their own culture. I was one of those people for most of my life as my family insisted I stick to ONLY Jewish girls and I did…hence why I was never that successful with women in my youth because I had a very small community to choose my partners from.

Once I hit 16 I realised that this is insane. I started using pick up lines to get girls but they were so cheesy, stupid and obvious that they really could only be used as jokes. Everyone knows everyone if you’re an observant Jewish person in Sydney. Just like any religion, cult or past time it usually has a community aspect to it that can really easily suck you in to other peoples’ dramas as it’s all very incestuous.

So I started approaching black women when I first realised that inter-marriage is crap because no Rabbi, Priest, Parent or Friend could ever convince me that their views should dictate to me who I love and who I don’t. Psychologists, neuroscience, my heart and MOST important my own research and what I have seen proven true consistently will be the only things that sway me. In other words: science, not god and not a man or woman who’s been given authority by an organisation (business, church, cult, etc) or by a friend who’s trying to push their own personal anti-assimilation sentiments into my life because their views are often not things they’re proud to state outright because even though they think it, they may know that saying it sounds racist.

So, here’s a video I filmed 2 years ago now and you can see on screen the bare-bones tips I was working on back in my early days (2 years prior to even being bothered to go out and film what I do). It is by no means out of date, instead all the commentary you see is not very succinct and it’s very technique based.

In other-words, you will have to learn each little trick and remember a heap of things (that’s how I used to do it). Later I researched the commonalities of what makes all these things effective and then later focused on helping guys keep it simple because that way they never run out of things to say. Too much to remember will cause you to ‘blank out’ whilst using a pick up line, being a pick up artist or using any form of social or interpersonal trick or tip.

That’s all they are: tricks and tips. Not real solutions. The real solutions created the tips and tricks you can see that I use in this video when picking up an Asian girl in under 1 minute who was with her DAD! It’s insane…but not really (you’ll be able to do it too just by watching this video…which kills how ‘insane’ it is because it’s just that easy).

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