Confidence is not essential at all. It helps but what I'm teaching you here (because confidence training is in the course) is how to be perceived as confident for the time being.
But this is your first lesson and you may not be strong enough to want to learn how to pickup women speedily just yet so how can you at least appear confident even if you don't feel it yet?
It's so easy. Tell them what they will do and how they will do it, rather than asking them. This is called "Framing" and it keeps you in command.
Here is what an average man would do:
Average Man: hey, you’re pretty cool, I was wondering if maybe I can
grab your number and if you want we can go out some time?
Her: um, I dunno, I’m kinda seeing someone
Average Man: oh…ok, well….I meant as friends…you know? Etc…
If he does get a number from her she will either never answer, return his
calls or she will give him a fake number.
The pick up artist has already assumed in his mind that she would like nothing more than to meet up with him. If you genuinely
believe something enough, it is contagious and will flow onto the people
you talk to particularly if you are passionate about it. You can have this tomorrow, it's incredibly quick to learn.
So, the Alpha Male does the following, he tells her how it is
going to be:
YOU: you know what *takes his phone out of his pocket whilst still
maintaining eye contact with the target* you’re great fun to be around
(delivers a compliment to break their defenses), what's your name again?
Her: Sophie
YOU: *types her name into the phone* Great, put your number in my phone and I'll call you next time I decide to eat McDonalds (assuming 'McDonalds' was part of your conversation).
If you
have been talking about a common interest e.g. let us say you are on the
topic of fast food restaurants you can get her number and date using yourtopic of conversation as an excuse. |