Want her Number? 
So you want to number close? Tell, don't ask. After this course the signs of interest from the women you approach will be common. She bites her bottom lip, tilts her head down and looks up at as she begins to take an interest in you. Your turn to be great is within your reach ,you will start by complimenting her on a non-sexual trait.
Confidence is not essential at all. It helps but what I'm teaching you here (because confidence training is in the course) is how to be perceived as confident for the time being. But this is your first lesson and you may not be strong enough to want to learn how to pickup women speedily just yet so how can you at least appear confident even if you don't feel it yet? It's so easy. Tell them what they will do and how they will do it, rather than asking them. This is called "Framing" and it keeps you in command. Here is what an average man would do: Average Man: hey, you’re pretty cool, I was wondering if maybe I can grab your number and if you want we can go out some time? Her: um, I dunno, I’m kinda seeing someone Average Man: oh…ok, well….I meant as friends…you know? Etc… If he does get a number from her she will either never answer, return his calls or she will give him a fake number. The pick up artist has already assumed in his mind that she would like nothing more than to meet up with him. If you genuinely believe something enough, it is contagious and will flow onto the people you talk to particularly if you are passionate about it. You can have this tomorrow, it's incredibly quick to learn.
So, the Alpha Male does the following, he tells her how it is going to be: YOU: you know what *takes his phone out of his pocket whilst still maintaining eye contact with the target* you’re great fun to be around (delivers a compliment to break their defenses), what's your name again? Her: Sophie YOU: *types her name into the phone* Great, put your number in my phone and I'll call you next time I decide to eat McDonalds (assuming 'McDonalds' was part of your conversation). If you have been talking about a common interest e.g. let us say you are on the topic of fast food restaurants you can get her number and date using yourtopic of conversation as an excuse. Now let's take something more obscure like rock climbing for example: YOU: you have to try this indoor rock climbing place I've found. It is the most amazing stress relieverI think I’ve ever had, you’ll love it. *Hands her phone* give me your number and I’ll give you a call next time I head back there. Notice how the alpha male never specifies when he will call. He is a busy guy, he has many people to call and many people to see. He will call you when he is free. He does not say “I’ll call you at 8:23pm tomorrow night ok?” because who knows, someone better might have come along. Does this sound rude to you? If it does then put your reservations regarding phone etiquette aside. It works. I'm not asking you to sell machine guns to children or anything. Being a pickup artist is about efficiency, not poor ethics.
Be The Alpha MaleRemember that the number close is an escalation. It's a definite demonstration that yes, you are interested in her. Now as a pickup artist in training you will need to always take responsibility for escalations and how you implement them. This is because if they give you their number after you have asked for it in a way that appears "cliche" or not confident this would communicate that they're ok with that behaviour. "Asking" will make the woman feel like she is accepting to give you "something more" as some women feel a number given to a man in a seduction context is them blatantly allowing a sexual escalation to happen. This can make some women feel cheap and responsible for your poor escalation. The worse your number close attempt the harder it is for her not to feel cheap.
Telegraphing the number close by making it obvious (e.g. digging for your phone in your pocket) will threaten your success. This is only your first lesson, we haven't worked on killing your anxiety or stress yet and nervously searching for your phone may seem minor but it may be the biggest threat to your kiss closes and number closes this week. This has greater significance when we teach you how to kiss close in under 15 minutes. Read this all very carefully, the principles are key throughout your travels as a pickup artist.
Quick TipsRAPPORT TIP:
INSTANT DATE TIP:
For example: Target: I haven’t been to the zoo in ages / I really want to try African food / I can’t wait until the post-Christmas sales / there are so many good local bands You: I wouldn’t mind doing __________ either, I’m free Tuesday, give me your address and I’ll pick you up at eight and we’ll go. The more specific your arrangement the more important she will perceive it to be and the less likely she is to cancel.
Ok, so now there is absolutely no reason why you should not be able to number close in under a minute. Now is the time to put excuses (among other things) to bed. Many people look externally for answers to their woes. Religion, drugs, corporate culture, music, social groups. All these things can be religions of their own. Ways by which you feel that they have to look outside of yourself to discover the potential inside. Hot girls all over you, a raise at work, the crowd screaming your name; these are all external validations. They're always nice but they're never essential to what you will soon become. I'll ask you this: If two men have something in common then in what ways are they the same and different?
I'm here to tell you that the answer to the question above is simply "both". A multitude of influences can shape who you are and teach you what is and isn't acceptable. Those days are over and this is alot bigger than what you will learn anywhere else. The men are "both" the same and different as different people will perceive and relate to them in different ways. I'm here to teach you how to take back that power: do what you want, when you want and still have unbelievably attractive women and others be convinced that you are amazing. 
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