| How To Pick Up A Girl |
How To Pick Up A GirlLearning how to pick up a girl sounds unbelievable to some and fantasy to most. “You either have it or you don’t” is the old-school sentiment that still lingers in men who mostly have never been known how to pick up a girl. Every seasoned ladies’ man knows or at least has an inkling that when it comes to knowing how to pick up a girl, experience will tell you what works and what doesn’t. Which, put simply, is crap and I’ll tell you why by showing you the basics of how to pick up a girl.
These are the four pillars of seduction, the unbreakable over-arching principles which I have been teaching men by for the past 6 years when they want to know how to pick up a girl. Now these won’t mean anything to you yet but what I can guarantee you is that you will fare much better with these under your belt than your friends telling you “just be confident”. PlayfulnessPlayfulness is essential to creating a light, flirty conversation with a woman with no awkwardness. It seems vague but it is the key to having good conversations with women. It is said a lot, you feel it sometimes but why can’t playfulness stay around and be effective at work, at home, at a club or during a bad mood. Playfulness is all in your physical and verbal delivery. It’s not what you say it is how you say it however know that if you’re trying to be funny or if you’re the kind of guy who consistently says the wrong thing at the wrong time then come with me and let me help you. I was out with a student 5 years ago in a club teaching him how to pick up a girl using playfulness. I told him that I will go and approach 2 different women and tell each of them to “get fucked”. One will love it, the other will hate it. Inside our online course I go into it in more detail but all you really need to know at this initial stage is that my intonation changed how it was received and got me laid. I said: T: “I bet that cocktail is just pure alcohol” Her: “No no, I don’t get drunk in public” T: “Get fucked! I swore I swore I sore you puking old vodka into that pot-plant over there a few moments ago “ Her: “Haha I do have have my nights, I just don’t think this is going to be a big one for me” T: “Really? I was really hoping I could hold your hair back whilst you’re sick and slowly move in as the ‘safe’ guy-friend and tell you in a few years that I’ve been into you since we met.” Now there’s a few things going on here. Making fun of social norms and typically accepted but rarely spoken of relationships and clichés are a solid part of playfulness however here it was all about the intonation – how I said “Get Fucked” so as to move the conversation initially into a more casual space. Step 1Elongate your ‘playful’ words or phrase. I have videos on www.seduceinseconds.com which can more accurately show you how to deliver it physically and vocally. For your purposes for learning how to pick up a girl you simply should don a cheeky smile and stretch out your words, elongate them. Instead of “GET FUCKED” which would be screamed or muttered resentfully under the breath of man who just got rejected by his fourth “lesbian”, this is “geeeeeet fuuucked”. It’s not pronounced as “geet” instead of “get”, it is just simply the “get” and “fucked” sound that you keep and just stretch out. Step 2The elongating of the words opens doors for you to be sarcastic. Whilst doing step one your facial expression and physical delivery is what comes next to seal the deal and get her into a loose and flirty conversation. Pushing her shoulder lightly with your hand as you make the comment and smiling whilst you do it will get you out of more awkward situations and will help you to pick up up women without awkwardness and tension more than any technique. Best of all, it’s simple and easy to remember. In my next article I will cover the other four steps of how to pick up a girl using the Four Principles of Seduction.
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