T putting this into action in a well known Sydney bar with an exotic dancer (handcuffs included)
T putting this into action in a well known Sydney bar with an exotic dancer (handcuffs included)
Kissing – A Step By Step Guide For Men
By the end of this article you will have a basic understanding of how to kiss a girl and get rid of your first kiss nerves and lock in a successful snog. The process of how to kiss a girl that you are about to learn has been tested over three hundred times and has been used for over 5 years by top dating and etiquette coaches.
It’s important when learning how to kiss a girl to recognize the physical signs. You do not have to be human genius to calculate what body language means. Often it is as simple as reminding yourself to be aware of their body signals and know a few key signs.
Seduce In Seconds Student Peter, with Sophie - A Girl He Picked Up at Establishment bar in Sydney on one of our recent workshops.
The biting of the bottom lip or even the slight licking of the lip is often done subconsciously which is great for an aspiring kisser to know as it is one of the most obvious and potent signs you can get.
When both men and women get attracted and physically aroused the blood rushes to a few key regions: the lips, the genitalia and the breasts. These are evolutionary hardwires that we’ve retained from millions of years ago making it just as easy for a Homoerectus male to help sense if a woman is on heat just like what is done in the rest of animal kingdom. When learning how to kiss a girl these signs become very important.
Unlike animals we can’t just drop our pants and compare our bits around nightclubs until something bites. We simply only have the lips. Blood flows , when aroused, to your lips.
They then tingle slightly because of the rush of blood into them, expanding them and making us bite them slightly to dissipate the blood and the tingling feeling. Be careful when using this as our tests have shown the arousal indicator can be flagged at meal times and if there are more than one potential suitors interacting with the target.
There are another 4 signs to take note of when learning how to kiss a girl. Preening rituals, posture, their eye contact and types of physical escalation. All four are too in-depth to discuss here however you will need to be aware that physical escalation is the key to the brief process you’re going to learn.
Physical escalation rarely lies. If you know how to build upon your physical contact, consistently increasing your advances from touch on the hand, a hug, a hand on the leg or even a stroke of the face you’re getting people more comfortable with your “intimate zone”.
Now you’re “intimate zone” is not some vague concept that requires you to open yourself to Buddha’s sacred energies. Quite simply it is an established psychological principle researched by Allan Pease who states there are 3 zones of face-to-face interaction: The antisocial zone (approx 2meters away from your target), the social zone (500cm-1meter) and the intimate zone (less than 500cm). People aren’t usually comfortable having people who they’re not attracted to or have little rapport with into their intimate zone and that’s exactly what we’ve taught at seduceinseconds.com for 5 years. Assuming you have a small amount of these things in your favour is all you need to be successful kiss-wise.
Get them used to being in their intimate zone, we have a video on our site which shows just how I entered her Intimate zone by making out like I wanted to say something quietly to her in her ear. A very basic trick which works above all the others for the reason that her view of you is obstructed.
Moving in to “tell them something” reduces the distance between her and you from the intimate zone to the Seduction Zone which is less than 15cm away from a target. This distance being reduced preemptively reduces your rejection risk from a 90% rejection probability to a 10% rejection probability.
Why?
Most kisses do not fail because people do not want to be kissed. Most kisses, according to our tests, fail due to the awkwardness before the kiss, the stalling and finally the painful journey into the kiss which seems to take a lifetime.
Brain seconds are much longer than real seconds and if your target sees you moving in slowly to make out with you your brain will have more than enough time to react and think of all the reasons why or why not to kiss you. Big mistake.
The Brain often thinks of 70% more negative thoughts than positive and depending on someone’s insecurities which can be expounded by their mood, context or past dating history you can easily create some unnecessary hurdles for yourself.
In reality you, will be springing the kiss on them. There’s only a few schools of thought on how to kiss a girl however few have recorded it and put it on their site unlike Seduce In Seconds. Catching them partially off guard before their brain has a chance to think about WHY they should or most likely shouldn’t kiss you is where your success lies. their physical instincts and sexual “on buttons” haven’t been pushed yet until your place your mouth and hands on your target.
Even if they’re only mildly attracted to you many people’s sexual “go” buttons are only pushed once their physical side has been switched on. This in itself has been proven to cause sweeping rushes of Dopamine into the brain (described as “liquid love” or “brain cocaine”).
Additionally it take the kiss journey from 500cm to almost 10cm which means if this is the most risky time for getting rejected, you’ve just reduced the travel time by 500%. So, in reality, your kiss does not need to have any pre-requisites for attraction by the other party.
In effect this can work with attraction already created which makes your job easier but can also work as a stand-alone technique that brings all the “physical-go” that you need to kick start attraction all by itself.
Now this does not work every time, over the years we have determined this to have a 90% success rate with: work mates, strangers who have been kissed in under 15 minutes, old friends and exs.
We will never waste your time with giving you unqualified information and we have some hidden camera videos on http://www.seduceinseconds.com showing you for free how a woman was kissed in 15 minutes off the street using this technique.
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ive noticed in many videos you cheek kiss on exit and sometimes command a reply to your own cheek, either verbally or gesutrally, are you counting that as a ‘kiss close’ or is this just more european/ australian than an american is used to seeing? or are you escalating and building more rapport?
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Fascinating…and I agree pretty much with everything. Keep up the good work…I will definitely be back soon
Appreciate your article. It was well said.
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what is the girl going to think if you somewhat inpose a kiss that is not very gentlemen like what i basally see is that you could ruin her image if her friends found out especially if you are not a very attractive guy …make sure you have a plan b when you get screwed by her boyfriend you did not know about … other than that i think its a little sly to do
Man this is pure genious. I’ve used all this before without even knowing what I was doing as far as the process goes. It just came natural to me like a moth to the light. Now I have a woman who I’ve been with for over a year and I’m getting the jitters from feeling locked down and I have a kid. I have been as good as any PUA can be to her and then some but I feel like I’m denying my natural instinct to hunt and it is causing me to loose the part of me that makes me care about my looks, witty replies and go getter atittude. I love my new family and would never bail on them but I just feel incomplete without being able to master this craft further because I’ve been taken out of the field. I tried to explain it to her but she took it the wrong way and so I just told her what she wanted to hear you know “baby I love you and have no interest in other ladies” that type of stuff. I think we oughta develope a method of the “one day sex close” for guys like me who need a “trip to vegas” but don’t have the time. It’s a study I’ve been thinking about undertaking for a while now. I know I can do it because I have done it sooo many times in my life already. I know it’s not my looks that give me this talent because I’m 5′6 190 lbs and have acne scars on my face and a rougher look, but you look like a school boy in comparison to me lol. No offense. All I’m doing is validating my reason for promoting the study of this method. The one night stand method. I’d love to write a tried and true one night stand method for guys who can’t bring a woman back to thier house for whatever reason, have no interest in a follow up or “relationship”, and simply wish to have sex then be on their way again! There are sooo many advanced topics we can cover that go much further than a kiss although that is a mountain for some. I’m not saying I don’t ever need help or guidance because although I’m a more than intermediate PUA, I have discovered recent new barriers to my path of sexual and psychological enlightenment. I need to take things to the next limit. My ultimate goal is to make an acceptance method. Men will use the acceptance method to not only get the girls but to make them accept eachothers existance and be ok with it. Anyone who can do that is the best in the business because it goes against all common morals and is completely socially unexceptable to 90 percent of the ladies in my opinion. They all want you to themselves if you are a good PUA wich is a blessing and a curse at the same time. My email is morbidfuture@gmail.com if you’d like to work on something revolutionary. I like your style because you remind me of me. Thanx for existing.