Comments on: How to Approach A Woman – 4 Basic Techniques http://www.seduceinseconds.com/how-to-approach-a-woman?utm_source=subscriber&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss Tue, 10 Jan 2012 23:41:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: _T_ http://www.seduceinseconds.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/comment-page-2#comment-28609 _T_ Tue, 08 Nov 2011 02:28:00 +0000 http://blog.seduceinseconds.com/?p=49#comment-28609 Opinion openers are key to getting you over your fear of approaching and into seemless conversations AT SCHOOL. You don't want to go direct on such young girls as it's 'moving waaaay to fast for them' - that works better with women over the age of 21. Use an opinion opener and get a female opinion about something that is either relationship based or based on the 'unknown' (e.g. do you think horoscopes are for real?). Then follow it with a reason / story as to WHY you asked - this will get you 'opening' better and after you've done this 5 times with PRACTICE girls, then go do it one the girl you care about as you'll already be much less nervous and that will come accross as confidence! Opinion openers are key to getting you over your fear of approaching and into seemless conversations AT SCHOOL. You don’t want to go direct on such young girls as it’s ‘moving waaaay to fast for them’ – that works better with women over the age of 21. Use an opinion opener and get a female opinion about something that is either relationship based or based on the ‘unknown’ (e.g. do you think horoscopes are for real?). Then follow it with a reason / story as to WHY you asked – this will get you ‘opening’ better and after you’ve done this 5 times with PRACTICE girls, then go do it one the girl you care about as you’ll already be much less nervous and that will come accross as confidence!

]]> By: Julian http://www.seduceinseconds.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/comment-page-2#comment-23576 Julian Thu, 01 Sep 2011 02:59:54 +0000 http://blog.seduceinseconds.com/?p=49#comment-23576 Hey, Im hoping u can give me a little advice. I'm in 9th grade and there is this girl in 8th grade and I rlly want to ask her out it's just tht I haven't rlly talked to her yet and I was hoping u could give me a little advice Hey, Im hoping u can give me a little advice. I’m in 9th grade and there is this girl in 8th grade and I rlly want to ask her out it’s just tht I haven’t rlly talked to her yet and I was hoping u could give me a little advice

]]> By: SangAlong http://www.seduceinseconds.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/comment-page-2#comment-14899 SangAlong Thu, 12 May 2011 06:29:24 +0000 http://blog.seduceinseconds.com/?p=49#comment-14899 First, what you are doing is amazing. I just want to said thnx, you see I work in a salon. I play poker alot, by saying that; I can read body lang. And I pretty much do the straight forward approach, when talking to a female. The problem is, its very hard to keep a 30 to 45 mins conversation. I will usually have a good time talking to the female for 10 mins to 15 mins then, the conv. will fizzle. What is your take Mr. T-bag. loL no disrespect First, what you are doing is amazing. I just want to said thnx, you see I work in a salon. I play poker alot, by saying that; I can read body lang. And I pretty much do the straight forward approach, when talking to a female. The problem is, its very hard to keep a 30 to 45 mins conversation. I will usually have a good time talking to the female for 10 mins to 15 mins then, the conv. will fizzle. What is your take Mr. T-bag. loL no disrespect

]]> By: Josh http://www.seduceinseconds.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/comment-page-2#comment-10484 Josh Mon, 21 Feb 2011 04:23:58 +0000 http://blog.seduceinseconds.com/?p=49#comment-10484 hey T i have a question about ringing girls for the first time. i mean is there anyway to brush the call off if there at work... and get a second chance... im sure u have had plenty of these calls so any help would be appreaciated hey T
i have a question about ringing girls for the first time. i mean is there anyway to brush the call off if there at work… and get a second chance… im sure u have had plenty of these calls so any help would be appreaciated

]]> By: Gary http://www.seduceinseconds.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/comment-page-2#comment-8196 Gary Sun, 26 Dec 2010 17:46:20 +0000 http://blog.seduceinseconds.com/?p=49#comment-8196 Hey T, I have a question for you. Lets say that your just starting out and approaching girls and it's a new thing for you, and lets say that you get rejected (either because she has a boyfriend or maybe the timing is wrong for her, whatever it maybe) and it's just not going to happen. Could you turn to her and say "Wow, thank you very much I'm actually going through a process right now to rid myself of (Not so much of approach/rejection anxiety, because at this point you've already encountered both of them) bad social/communication skills with women", now asking the woman that just rejected you "would you have any advice for me as I go through this process???" I mean because you've already know it's not happening, and at least you might get some advice from a woman's point of view (and her advice would probably be ask questions about her, etc, but maybe you might get something different). And I also know that, this is basically what your teaching, but maybe I could speed up the process and start dating quicker and attack this problem. Hey T,
I have a question for you. Lets say that your just starting out and approaching girls and it’s a new thing for you, and lets say that you get rejected (either because she has a boyfriend or maybe the timing is wrong for her, whatever it maybe) and it’s just not going to happen.
Could you turn to her and say “Wow, thank you very much I’m actually going through a process right now to rid myself of (Not so much of approach/rejection anxiety, because at this point you’ve already encountered both of them) bad social/communication skills with women”, now asking the woman that just rejected you “would you have any advice for me as I go through this process???”
I mean because you’ve already know it’s not happening, and at least you might get some advice from a woman’s point of view (and her advice would probably be ask questions about her, etc, but maybe you might get something different). And I also know that, this is basically what your teaching, but maybe I could speed up the process and start dating quicker and attack this problem.

]]> By: Harry http://www.seduceinseconds.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/comment-page-2#comment-6216 Harry Sat, 06 Nov 2010 23:13:45 +0000 http://blog.seduceinseconds.com/?p=49#comment-6216 Something that has worked for me recently is to totally avoid the usual questions. I made a mental rule to avoid questions like What's your name/major/etc...and just use them until the very last minute. In my job, I need to talk to tons of people I don't actually know and only get to know them once they use our services....so I sort of follow a similar approach to meet women.... The other day I was having lunch and this cute girl sat diagonally across from me. I noticed she started eating dessert before her actual lunch, so I just jokingly said "Hey, you're cheating...I thought you were supposed to leave dessert for last..." She burst out laughing and almost choked...she was forced to respond and justify herself, so I kept up teasing..we chatted for about 30 minutes and have actually met for "proper" lunch a few times... On the elevator leaving the gym, this hot woman was sipping on a protein shake and I just said..."hey, I didn't know they made those to go..."...she told me all there is to know about protein shakes...she's a regular there, so next time I see her I can chat with her as if we were friends and I don't even know her name yet... Something that has worked for me recently is to totally avoid the usual questions. I made a mental rule to avoid questions like What’s your name/major/etc…and just use them until the very last minute. In my job, I need to talk to tons of people I don’t actually know and only get to know them once they use our services….so I sort of follow a similar approach to meet women….

The other day I was having lunch and this cute girl sat diagonally across from me. I noticed she started eating dessert before her actual lunch, so I just jokingly said “Hey, you’re cheating…I thought you were supposed to leave dessert for last…” She burst out laughing and almost choked…she was forced to respond and justify herself, so I kept up teasing..we chatted for about 30 minutes and have actually met for “proper” lunch a few times…

On the elevator leaving the gym, this hot woman was sipping on a protein shake and I just said…”hey, I didn’t know they made those to go…”…she told me all there is to know about protein shakes…she’s a regular there, so next time I see her I can chat with her as if we were friends and I don’t even know her name yet…

]]> By: dutchguy http://www.seduceinseconds.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/comment-page-2#comment-5797 dutchguy Sun, 24 Oct 2010 21:07:13 +0000 http://blog.seduceinseconds.com/?p=49#comment-5797 I know what you mean, with confidence. I'm still at highschool but its kind of the same idea. the thing is, most of the time I myself find that I don't have the confidence or courage to walk up to her and talk to her, but by standing and doing nothing you won't learn a thing. it's actually very good to fail because you learn most of that. but to get to the point I always think like: I already have the a no for answer, so i don't have anything to lose. and besides there's enough fish in the ocean. as stated above, you need to do a few things so what you talk about is actually not really the problem. just throw in some teases and wait for her reaction it might give you something to talk about... (not a pro, but it might help?!?) I know what you mean, with confidence. I’m still at highschool but its kind of the same idea.
the thing is, most of the time I myself find that I don’t have the confidence or courage to walk up to her and talk to her, but by standing and doing nothing you won’t learn a thing. it’s actually very good to fail because you learn most of that.
but to get to the point I always think like: I already have the a no for answer, so i don’t have anything to lose. and besides there’s enough fish in the ocean.
as stated above, you need to do a few things so what you talk about is actually not really the problem. just throw in some teases and wait for her reaction it might give you something to talk about…

(not a pro, but it might help?!?)

]]> By: neo http://www.seduceinseconds.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/comment-page-2#comment-4379 neo Thu, 23 Sep 2010 18:10:50 +0000 http://blog.seduceinseconds.com/?p=49#comment-4379 As i want to tell u i m studying in a university, i see lot of preety girls daily and lot of preety single girls raoming alone in the campus, but i didn't find the level of cofidence to approach the that i like randemily in the campus, please tell how to have this courage and confidence to do so.. and how should i start and what should i ask or tell her first her when i wanted to talk to her?? please please tell.. As i want to tell u i m studying in a university, i see lot of preety girls daily and lot of preety single girls raoming alone in the campus, but i didn’t find the level of cofidence to approach the that i like randemily in the campus, please tell how to have this courage and confidence to do so.. and how should i start and what should i ask or tell her first her when i wanted to talk to her?? please please tell..

]]> By: Harry http://www.seduceinseconds.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/comment-page-2#comment-4169 Harry Sun, 19 Sep 2010 05:22:44 +0000 http://blog.seduceinseconds.com/?p=49#comment-4169 Picking up girls at uni is probably the easiest. You already have a context and plenty of stuff to talk about. In fact, uni was the place where I got the most action. There are plenty of activities and events and, some, where you know it or not, are meant to be for students to meet....I'd approach a girl and say 'hey, I've seen you on campus and wanted to say hi......" Picking up girls at uni is probably the easiest. You already have a context and plenty of stuff to talk about. In fact, uni was the place where I got the most action. There are plenty of activities and events and, some, where you know it or not, are meant to be for students to meet….I’d approach a girl and say ‘hey, I’ve seen you on campus and wanted to say hi……”

]]> By: R.A.F. http://www.seduceinseconds.com/how-to-approach-a-woman/comment-page-2#comment-3162 R.A.F. Tue, 24 Aug 2010 13:21:43 +0000 http://blog.seduceinseconds.com/?p=49#comment-3162 ehi! T this place is amazing!! you are doing a great job, since when have you been doing this? I'm 20 and I'm only in the beginning of my pick-up experience. I'm in Miami going to the University, I was wondering If you would recommend to try to pick up girls in the UNI too? Thanks, have a good day Raf ehi! T this place is amazing!! you are doing a great job, since when have you been doing this?

I’m 20 and I’m only in the beginning of my pick-up experience. I’m in Miami going to the University, I was wondering If you would recommend to try to pick up girls in the UNI too?

Thanks, have a good day

Raf

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